TEAM SPIRIT HOLISTIC

ARISE AND SHINE

 

Being a female leader – living your dream

 

• As a young girl
• As a young woman in the work place
• As a married woman
• As a mother.
• You will face challenges all the way.
• You need to overcome them.

 

WHY WOMEN LEADERS GO INTO BURN-OUT

 

• Women have been taught:
• Competition against cooperation/completion
• What a man can do, a woman can do better.
• Liberation of the woman
• Women’s empowerment.
• Autonomy of the woman.
• Gender equality.

 

TO THE MAN HEARING THIS

 

• His blood boils over with adrenaline because of:
• His molding process – his mom was never equal to his dad.
• Tradition = woman bows to men
• Religion = woman submit to your man.
• Society =woman respect a man.

 

 

Leadership + Team Spirit = Exponential results

 

 

• A female leader needs the men in her team.
• Gender wars = stress and stress illnesses especially for the emotional woman.
• Man is ready to defend his “manhood” at all costs.
• Women hardly win a war against the analytical/logical man because she uses her emotions often.

TRUE TEAM SPIRIT AND LEADERSHIP

 

 

• Woman’s emotional 6th intelligence and brains + Man’s physical strength, tenacity and brains= success for the female leader and her team.
• Takes the natural nurturing of a woman to achieve.

 

The bedroom arena is the PLACE where the team spirit is tested to the max.

 

• Most men do not know how to please a woman in bed because they are too proud to learn.
• Pleasing an educated woman is a daunting task.
• According to studies in the West 50% of women just endure sex – no orgasm.
• In Sub-Saharan Africa ????? Have to talk because of the HIV pandemic. 1 – 160,000PLWH in 20years.

 

 

The intimate, private “match” between team captain and his coach

 

 

• Played in 3 phases with both taking an active role.
• Phase 1 = warm-up or “echauffement” very important to the woman.
• Men must remember the 30/30 rule – men are ready in 30 seconds, women 30minutes.
• Must not start a “match” by kicking a penalty.